OOTD 2.29.2012 :: Sticking with a good thing

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Man, being 30 is so weird! It’s like hitting the reset button on your console to move forward in the game. I love it, I know that. Like any milestone year there’s some introspection happening. Have to admit that I’ve spent the last month or so examining my life a bit and figuring out where I’m happy with myself and what needs work. I am by nature a social butterfly but I realized that I had been isolating myself for awhile…why I’m not sure. So it was time to get back out there! Meet new people and see old friends.

Last night I met up with some good friends I hadn’t seen in awhile. We had met at my last job and have kept in touch even though it’s been almost 5 years since one of them left and more than 3 years for me. The third is still there. While I don’t miss the job I miss the people I worked with greatly. It was a small company where just about everyone got along, and when I moved down to NYC those people were my family. I keep in touch with many of them. Seeing those wonderful ladies last night was a breath of fresh air. As we traded stories about our families, friends and goings on I felt my anxiety of recent days melt away. It helps that they give great advice. When you find a good thing you should stick with it and these ladies are good friends.

The same premise goes for clothing. I was first introduced to this Twinkle by Wenlan dress shape via Anthropologie’s famous Flight of Swans Dress. While I don’t own that variation I’ve since purchased a navy version (3rd look down in this post) and now this crosshatch version I recently picked up via Hautelook. The silhouette is very flattering on this day-to-night dress. I’m sure I’ll get plenty of use from it. One odd thing is that each version of this dress has fit me differently. I wore a 6 in the Flight of Swans dress comfortably. An 8 in the navy version barely allows enough room to breathe. And I’m positively swimming in the 8 of the crosshatch version in this OOTD. Some tailoring is in order for sure.

As a finishing touch on this cold day I’m wearing J.Crew’s Traversa Cardigan. It nips in at the waist nicely with ruffles a’plenty. Shape and ruffles? Two of my favorite things.

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In this outfit:
J.Crew Traversa Cardigan
Twinkle by Wenlan After 5 Affair Dress
Hue Super Opaque Tights in black
The Avenue Black Bow Boots
Kate Spade Heart of Gold Idiom Bangle
Kate Spade Smoke and Mirrors Idiom Bangle
Kate Spade In the Spotlight Idiom Bangle
Kate Spade An Ace Up Your Sleeve Idiom Bangle
Anthropologie Lapsed Meridian Necklace in silver
Deco Drop Earrings (a gift)